LOL in the Storm...

So...I want to be the calm little center of the storm. However, I can't control the storm and I am not super good at calm. So, instead, I think I will laugh that hysterical/crazy laugh...at high volume, at the storm. LOL. Sure, sure, that will do the trick. I was thinking about what to blog on, in the midst of stormy times...the things that are currently happening or following up on past posts: 1 - Lent is almost over...what have I learned from the last 40 days? 2 - Church shopping is continuing...where should I go next? 3 - Job hunting is ongoing, have an offer on hold, just interviewed at another place too...waiting 4 - Dean, my dear sweet child, is almost potty trained, yay! 5 - lots of other 'stuff'... However, no matter what I think I should write about, this idea keeps coming to mind...I am blessed! No matter how much certain aspects of my life seem overwhelming, I am still forever grateful for the awesomeness of other areas of my life. I have a God that will never leave or forsake me. I have a child that is SO amazing that it makes me cry just thinking about how awesome he is. I get his cuddles, his kisses, his never ending questions and so much more that its impossible to list. I have the best group of family and friends a girl could ever ask for locally and across the country. My loved ones are healthy, I have work, I have a home, and all of my needs are met. I guess its not quite time for another deep post...or a long post...or much of a post. So I will simply share my current affirmation of sorts, LOL...sticking my tongue out at the quagmire of lies and pity parties that try to tempt me and I will continue to reach up higher and out wider for more truth, courage, forgiveness, wisdom, hope, love, opportunity and friendship. Praying for God's guidance and will. If you are in my life you are in my prayers. Until I figure out what in the heck my next post will be on, I wish you a Happy Easter and sweet dreams.

what to let go of and what to pick up...

Today is a beautiful day for February in Chicago. The sun is shining and its in the 40's. It's Ash Wednesday. I started this post a few days ago and continuing to think on what is most important (and most interesting) to write on this topic. My spirits are high today. I made it to church this morning and had some time to meditate, think and pray before work. I had a fabulous coffee and then my usual detox smoothie, (so maybe the coffee and the detox drink don't go together, but whatever...lol). I heard some great music on the drive in and I am feeling lots of gratitude today. I think when my son was first born I blew off Lent that year...all I could think about was sleep. I still think a lot about sleep and dream of naps...but that's another story. This year I have a different perspective from all the other years and its tripping me up a bit. Maybe its the crazy transition I am in the middle of or maybe it's the church shopping, but whatever it is, I don't think I have ever thought about what my higher power might want for me, for Lent. Maybe this is something all of you (who practice Lent) think of each year and you are appalled that I am now just catching on. But regardless, this is where I am at. I am hoping to at least scratch the surface. It takes me days (sometimes longer to complete a blog post). Many of them end up being nothing more than digital journal entries because they never get posted. Between caring for my son, multiple part time jobs, and the rest of my pursuits, I am pulled in many directions. So...I suffer from distraction disorder...hmmm...joking, but maybe I am on to something. But truthfully being distracted is a challenge I work hard to overcome. I pray every day to be more present. I drag my thoughts to the past, to the future and to places that really don't mean much other than they are a nice distraction. Yet, I want to be more present. While teaching yoga I am preaching to my class, but also to myself, to stay present and giving tips on how to do that. I need to tape that monologue and play it continuously for myself. I am big believer in taking the positive path. I want to be realistic, but optimistc. I think this is a good thing. But...I have found at times I want to take the silver lining outlook to the extreme. I would rather jump the emotional hurdle and just go straight into a happy, optimistic place and be done with it. Yet, my loving support system likes to remind me (why do I listen to you loving support system), that when issues re-surface its an opportunity to learn an important lesson...and I know I would be kicking myself later if I ignored the repeat visit (and didn't learn and grow). But darn it..that sounds a little painful...not fun or optimistic. Regardless of what it might be, I am going to do my best to take this time...40 days (and likely more, boo)...and do the work...more work. But I am also open to this being super fast and not being painful...thinking positively about the thinking positively process...hmmm...anyway... I think that church shopping is messing with me too..although it is fun. If you have never done this, I highly recommend it. Possibly I have visited too many denominations in too short a time. I may redo my plan and stick to one denomination per month or something like that, so its not overwhelming. The differing attitudes and perspectives are likely adding to my distractions. However, its been a groovy journey and I am excited to go through it and to eventually decide where I want to land. It may be interesting content for a post... For now, my list of stuff to pick up and let go of for Lent will likely be big...as its still in progress...but at the top of the list I am praying for God to help me with my distractions. To clear my thoughts, words and behaviors; of distractions that are not serving me at this time. To be cleared of them and be filled with calm, guidance and purpose (peace)...and everything I need and desire that my higher power desires for me. To be able to work through whatever I need to work through. Praying for a healthy and fun 2013! At the top of any of my lists...I hope and pray to be the best parent I can be. To be present for my son at all times. To help him to connect with his three year old version of God. To raise him to be confident, loving, wise and courageous. To help him make sense of this world and to have fun. My heart grows with every hug, smile and giggle. He is the most amazing gift from God. I am forever grateful. I pray that you find some peace, purpose and have fun too! Until my next post...I hope you have sweet dreams.